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Shy: a Memoir

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Sian Prior has maintained a career in the public eye, as a broadcaster and performer, for more than twenty years. For far longer than that she has suffered from excruciating shyness. Eventually, after bolting from a party in a state of near-panic, she decides to investigate her condition. What is it - shyness? Where did hers come from? Why does it create such distressing turmoil beneath her assured professional front?

As Sian begins to research the science of social anxiety, other factors present themselves as facets of the problem. Family, intimate friendships, self-perception and fear and longing and the consequences of love...While, in counterpoint, there is the security, the sense of belonging, she finds in the life she shares with Tom, her famous partner. Until he tells her he is leaving.

Shy: A Memoir - frank, provocative, remarkable in its clarity and beautifully written - is a book about unease: about questioning who you are and evading the answer. It is about grief, and abandonment and loss. It is about how the simple word shy belies the complex reality of what that really means.

Sian Prior is a journalist and broadcaster specialising in the arts and popular culture, a media consultant, and a teacher at universities and writers centres. She has a second career as a musician and recording artist. Sian lives in Melbourne. Shy: A Memoir is her first book.

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'A fascinating meditation on how temperament can shape a person's life.' Books+Publishing

'Charming and beautifully evoked...' Weekend Australian

'Prior captures details with prose equal to a skilled novelist...a deeply satisfying inquiry into the nature of self.' Saturday Paper

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    • Books+Publishing

      March 20, 2014

      Journalist and former ABC broadcaster Sian Prior has been writing opinion pieces on the topic of shyness for many years. Her memoir Shy crystallises her years of analysis into a fascinating meditation on how temperament can shape a person’s life. Expanded from her 2009 Meanjin essay on the same topic, Prior’s memoir delves deeper into the psychology behind timidness. Combining interviews with experts in the field and reflections on Prior’s own fluctuating battles with shyness in her childhood and adult life, Shy functions as both great memoir and self-help. It’s inevitable that one of the most-talked-about elements of Shy will be Sian’s brief excursions into the breakdown of her long-term relationship with popular musician Paul Kelly (Kelly is never explicitly named, but enough clues are given). Ultimately, the book isn’t about him, it’s about her, and every other person to have ever felt crippled by social anxiety. Shy could be viewed as a more intimate companion piece to US author Susan Cain’s 2012 international bestseller, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Won’t Stop Talking. Shy is further proof there’s quite a lot to say about being quiet.

      Emily Laidlaw is the online editor at Kill Your Darlings

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